Archive for November, 2008

It’s not about the turkey.

November 26, 2008

I have heard several people say this year that they are looking forward to “Turkey Day.”  Are we seriously taking the Thanks out of Thanksgiving?!  Also, I find myself and others wishing people a Happy Thanksgiving, but why aren’t we actually saying “Thank you”?

It seems as though each day we are waking up to more and more bad news–the stock market tumbling, unemployment rising, home values declining, etc.  So what do we have to be grateful for?

Plenty.

It is easy to focus on what we don’t have… a new car, a bigger house, more vacation days, a nicer TV, and the list goes on.  Tomorrow as you’re sitting around the giant turkey, don’t forget to stop and think of all that you do have.  Food, housing, clothing, and transportation are the material things and we definitely should be grateful for them.  But our friends and family… no amount of money can take that away.

So before you eat more turkey than was thought humanly possible, say thank you to these people in your life.  They are more important than any bird.

Crisp Autumn Weather, Colorful Leaves, and the World Series

November 19, 2008

The beautiful autumn weather a few weekends ago and the abundance of leaves carpeting my yard got me reminiscing about another fall day years ago when my sister and her family were visiting from Missouri.  They were in town for a long weekend so my mother and I could “bond” with the kids and she and her husband could attend a baseball game at the Metro Dome between the Minnesota Twins and the St. Louis Cardinals.Fall Leaves

 My uncle offered them two free seats to attend the big rivalry, so Mom and I got to babysit for my nephew and niece.  I’m not sure who got the better deal, but I still remember how much the kids enjoyed playing in the big piles of leaves and how much we enjoyed watching them!

Those were simpler times perhaps, but it is comforting to reflect on how such a crisp, sunny day years later could trigger such wonderful memories of the innocence of childhood when everyday events could be so much fun.

And for all you baseball fans, the year was 1987 and the Minnesota Twins went on to win the World Series!

Footnote from my sister:  We enjoyed the game — although it was a bit scary having Missouri license plates in downtown Minneapolis!

Keeping It In Perspective

November 17, 2008

I’ve seen several references recently that “if we are in a recession it could be as bad as ‘81-‘82”.  I first noted that he said 1982, not 1929. Then I had to think for a second…where was I in 1982?  That year was one of my “transition points”. You know, one of those watershed moments when your life changes forever.

 

I was fired from a job as a convenience store manager in November, 1982. I was a single mom and didn’t qualify for unemployment benefits because I had been “let go for cause”. This called for drastic measures. I don’t even know how I got through that first month because, like so many 25 year olds, I had a nice car but had managed to save nothing.  I remember I got rid of the car immediately and bought something cheap that barely met my transportation needs. And we ate lots of soup.

 

After about 6 weeks, I did find a job as a bartender, working from 6 p.m. to 2.a.m. A less than ideal job for a single mom. But it kept a roof over our heads and food on our table. I’m sure we had a very lean Christmas that year, but my daughter doesn’t seem to be traumatized for life by it. I kept looking for another job over the coming months. But it was now 1983 and times were tough in small-town Iowa.  

 

If you remember the early 80s recession, the banking sector was hit hard. Prime rate hit 21.5% in June 1982, leading up to the S&L Crisis and the Farm Crisis.  Unemployment in Iowa was at an all time high of 8.5% - a record that still stands today.  Times may have been tough, but I still believed things would be OK.  After six months bartending, however, I started to reevaluate my life: I didn’t really have any education beyond high school and I didn’t have marketable job skills other than the fact that I had been a manager for 4 years.

 

My brother had recently finished a stint in the Air Force, moved back home and was going to the community college. He encouraged me to look into college myself. I was certain I could never afford it but I did some checking and found wonderful grants and programs available. So at the ripe old age of 26, as a single mom of a 7-year old, I strapped on the backpack and took the academic plunge.  My life changed forever.   I got my Associates degree in Consumer Finance and my BA in Accounting, graduating in four years with highest honors. It was hard work, often working 2 jobs while going to school full time. But I would not trade a moment of it. And it would not have happened if the economy had been booming.

 

My point is, that yes, times right now are tough. But let’s keep it in perspective. There are many young adults in their 20’s who have never known anything but a prolonged economic boom.  Anyone over the age of 40 remembers the early ‘80s and guess what: we survived. It was hard for a lot of people. A lot of banks failed. A lot of families lost their farms. And some people lost their homes. But this great country is still here. We will always have economic cycles…it’s the nature of capitalism. The current economy will rebound. As a society I think we’re learning to be more financially responsible. That’s a good thing. If you’re just starting your financial journey, I’ll share some of the lessons I learned in 1982 that I have carried with me to this date:

  1. Always have a little money in savings. Experts say you should have 6 months income in an emergency fund. That sounds daunting, but you have to start somewhere. If you need help saving, GMFCU can help with our Automatic Savings Account.
  2. Don’t use a credit card unless you can pay it off in the next month or two. The fact that I had no debt besides my car payment was a big reason that I made it through the tough times. 
  3. Why buy New when Used will do. A new car can lose 20%-30% of its value when you drive it off the lot. Unless you’re planning to buy a new car and drive it until the wheels fall off, let someone else take the first hit on depreciation.
  4. Learn the difference between “needs” and “wants”. If you are determined to live within your means, you will need to learn to say “no” to yourself. That daily Starbucks adds up. Spending $15/ week versus saving $15/week at 4% interest adds up to difference of $17,384 after 10 years.
  5. Always know that you are not above losing your job or having a medical crisis. A failure to plan for the worst can leave you devastated.

Those are five basic principles to get you started on the path to financial independence. When we hear from members with serious financial troubles these days, they didn’t get there by choice; a medical crisis, illness, divorce, job loss or some other unplanned event pushed them over the edge. A few years ago, you could sell your house and get out from under payments you couldn’t afford…and maybe even pocket some profit. That isn’t the case today. It can take months to sell a house, and you probably won’t see much profit.  So do you plan to be financially independent? How are you building an emergency fund? Or are you just buying that weekly lottery ticket, hoping that you’ll win big?  If you need help getting started, check out your credit union at gmfcu.com.

Tiles and tribulations

November 14, 2008

There’s something very satisfying about completing a big project.  Whether it’s at work or home, finishing a task that seems daunting at first produces a real sense of accomplishment.  As Aaron mentioned in a previous post, there’s always another big home-improvement project to do.  Over the course of the years that my wife and I have owned our home, we’ve done a number of them.  We’ve put up a privacy fence, transformed our backyard from a wildly overgrown garden (the less-than-brilliant idea of the previous owner) to grass, and completed a number of smaller tasks like painting nearly every room in the house.

 

The latest in this series of epic quests was to replace the vinyl tiles in our kitchen with ceramic tiles.  Actually, when we started this project last week, we were hoping that we would discover beautiful hardwood hiding under the vinyl tiles in the kitchen.  To our dismay, peeling off the sticky, scratched, old vinyl tiles revealed…more vinyl tiles.  These were older, more scratched, and a putrid shade of green.  They were likely the original floor of the house, and we decided to leave them where they were and cover them with new ceramic tiles.

 

Getting the vinyl tiles off of the floor was a major pain.  They would break into very small pieces when we tried to pull them up.  However, thanks to my best friend Google, I discovered an interesting technique:  We were able to place a damp towel on top of the tile and iron the towel for about 30 seconds.  After heating up, the tiles were much easier to peel off, and would generally come off in one piece.  It was still grueling and sticky work, but eventually we got it done.  Then the real fun began.

 

Over the course of twelve hours, my father and I laid tile in the kitchen.  It was a strain on the back and the wits, but the finished product is fantastic, and when I look at the kitchen floor, I know that I played a large part in making it happen.  I had never done any tiling before this weekend, so I learned a new skill and improved my home at the same time.  The journey was difficult, but the end result makes it all well worth the work.

 

Are any of you thinking of a project of your own?  GMFCU offers a number of products that are helpful for large or small projects, such as Home Equity loans or lines of credit, LifeStyle Loans, or even a first mortgage refinance.